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Category: Grief


  • The Blue Jar

    I took the round white lid off the small blue jar, thinking of Mom and how I came to have her moisturizer cream.  Silly really, but somehow that jar had become important to me.  A link to my sweet Mom who was no longer around to need it.    I thought of her smooth skin, her

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  • Coffee Can Adventures

    I’m pretty sure the experience I had recently is something my readers have not. Long before Mom’s death she left instructions for her burial. We would not need a casket, only a container for ashes. She asked my sister Marie to accompany her to the cemetery to mark her spot. You have to understand about

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  • Ribbons and Spurs

    Last spring I lost the use of my right hand and shoulder.  I broke two fingers and dang near broke my shoulder.  By God’s grace those injuries have healed and except for a nice little crook in my pinky I’m good as new. This spring I lost my mom. It feels like a part of

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  • Grief Brings a Suitcase

    A friend remarked recently that grief can be subtle.  I had not considered that; most of my personal experiences have involved shock and suddenness – nothing subtle about it.  But recently Grief made its uninvited, unwelcome appearance, disturbing the Christmas season and putting on hold my desire to blog until now.  I’m still reflecting on

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